Passing on the coaching torch…
In 2003 I graduated as a certified Hudson Institute Coach in Santa Barbara California, and also completed a conflict resolution and mediation certificate from Mediation Services in Winnipeg. Many multi-skilled young college graduates and other seasoned professionals are curious about my work as a farm family coach.
Today I am building a team of committed empathetic folks who share my mission to help farm families in transition get unstuck. Back in 2003 you would have labelled me a “trailblazer” when farm folks did not think finding harmony in understanding was marketable. It is now.
My current team of 8 amazing coaches have been training with me as I share my roadmap for coaching families. Our vision is helping families to build more effective communication. Our goal is to have coaches able to serve across North America who desire to help farm families transition well. We do this virtually on zoom.
As I am ageing in place on our seed farm in southwestern Manitoba, our coaching team is part of my 4th succession plan.
In 1992 my husband Wes and I bought the farm from his parents, who had bought the farm from his maternal grandfather in 1945. In July of 1998, I had crucial conversations with my farming parents, and then buried my mom too young at age 65, only 6 weeks after that family meeting with the accountants in July. In 2019 we started transitioning one of our businesses to our successor son and his wife, and are now in a joint venture with his corporation.
Like many of you, I am a farm partner, farm advisor, parent, and grandparent. I have many roles on our farm and want to transition all of those roles well.
Meet my team and choose the coach that best fits your needs as you consider their stories. We are happy to have a free discovery call with you to identify your main desire for coaching to ensure a great connection for coaching.
I would love to introduce you to my coaching team:
Jenna Zurba is a farm family coach and palliative care nurse from Dauphin, Manitoba. Her lifelong desire to help others, led her to obtain a bachelor’s degree in nursing in 2009 as well as a Canadian Nurses Association (CNA) Certificate in Canadian Hospice and Palliative Care Nursing (CHPCN)C.
As a palliative care nurse, Jenna has gained a broad understanding of how grief is experienced in all aspects of life from the loss of a loved one to the loss of a life career and everything in between. She has learnt that conflict and grief often go hand-in-hand and she is a strong believer that with proper communication and support, there is a way to find resolution to the conflict and a way through the grief.
Combined with nursing, Jenna’s own experiences with family farming has led to a desire to help individuals, couples and families navigate through the times of conflict, hopelessness and uncertainty that comes with farming succession. To facilitate serving in the role of a farm family coach, Jenna chose to further her education and obtain her conflict resolution and mediation certificates through Winnipeg Mediation Services.
As a farm family coach, Jenna hopes to offer support and guidance that creates resolution and leads to the “turning point” that allows positive change. She looks forward to the experiences that she will have as a farm family coach and is excited to meet the people and families that she will have the privilege of working with along the way.
Check out Jenna’s Episode: Grief and Loss in Farm Transitions on the Farm Family Harmony Podcast with Elaine Froese.
Kalynn Spain is a bridge builder in the agricultural community in Manitoba. She is passionate about empowering young farmers and creating strong rural communities.
Kalynn is a Certified Leadership Coach and is in the process of accumulating coaching hours to earn an international accreditation. She has a 4-year Bachelor’s degree in Conflict Resolution Studies and brings over five years of training and volunteer experience as a Victim-Offender mediator. Kalynn has spent her entire career in various areas of the agri-food industry, from food security to association management to farm inspection, working with organizations such as Canadian Foodgrains Bank, St. Norbert Farmers Market and Keystone Agricultural Producers. She currently works with students enrolled in agricultural degree and diploma programs with the Faculty of Agricultural and Food Sciences at the University of Manitoba.
Originally from Winnipeg, Kalynn now lives on a ten-acre property near Carman with her partner and their two children. They are currently navigating the challenging yet hopeful process of farm succession planning with his parents, who live and farm grain and cattle west of Arborg.
Check out Kalynn’s Episode: Understanding Conflict as a Difference in Needs on the Farm Family Harmony Podcast with Elaine Froese.
Crisol Gonzalez is a Transformation Practitioner and wife of a Dairy Farmer in Chihuahua, Mexico. She strives to facilitate life-changing conversations that serve as inspiration to embrace the next steps for a farm family business. Her life experiences interacting with diverse cultures gives her the ability to understand and work with the challenges that diversity of age, culture, and language bring to any farm or ranch.
As a dairy farmer herself, Crisol understands the challenges that families face when balancing seemingly never ending work while nurturing family and business relationships.
Being a former contractual lawyer, Crisol had a desire to learn how farm family transition strategies could help a new generation of farmers reach the next level of success and fulfillment while being sensitive to the fear of losing an entire generations (or multiple generations) work due to a lack of understanding and effective communication. Crisol offers a safe space for families to disentangle and weave new bonds of respect, understanding, and clarity for both their present and their future.
Crisol is passionate about life and enjoys free time on her front porch, sharing delicious food, laughs, and life stories with the people and four-legged family she loves.
Check out Crisol’s Episode: Conflict Dynamics & Resolution 101 on the Farm Family Harmony Podcast with Elaine Froese.
Lydia lives and farms in Manitoba and is a mediator and coach with Elaine Froese Farm Family Coach.
She has a Master’s Degree in Natural Resources Management with a research focus in rural livelihoods. Lydia has training in leadership and conflict resolution. She is a trained mediator and is a Graduate student in an accredited University coach training program. Lydia has additional training in mental health first aid, risk management and has taken training in the use of conflict resolution and personal development tools including Conflict Dynamic Profile and CRG Personal Style Indicator.
Lydia has been involved in farm policy and advocacy work over the years through various organizations and has traveled through Canada, the US, and internationally to Italy, Morocco, Mexico, and Brazil to work with other young farmers on farm policy issues.
She has an interest in farm business management, farm policy, farm transition planning, and rural mental health issues. She has hands-on experience as an owner/operator and built a profitable cattle grazing and beef business as a first-generation farmer. She and her spouse/ business partner are also part of a family farm transition plan with non-family. She is most passionate about the human relationships needed to make farming and rural communities really work. Her passion for the people in agriculture has driven her pursuit of lifelong learning and relationship building.
Check out Lydia’s Episode: How to Get Started in Farm Transition Conversations on the Farm Family Harmony Podcast with Elaine Froese.
Glenn Dogterom has a passion for working with farm families, their farm business and transitioning the family farm to the next generation. His career as a public accountant and financial planner was with a national public accounting firm. The focus of his practice was on the agricultural sector and assisting farm families in the transition process, which has led to working as a Farm Family Transition Coach.
As a professional accountant he has provided a variety of services to his clients including tax planning and preparation of both personal and corporate returns, financial statements, cash flows, analytical, transition planning and other. The nature of his work and clients has given him a greater understanding of a variety of farms and practices. Located in Lethbridge, the heart of irrigation country, he has seen firsthand the impact that water has played in the expansion, diversity, and value added to agriculture and support services.
Glenn obtained his Bachelor of Arts and Science from the University of Lethbridge, took the Commerce courses through the University of Calgary with a major in accounting, obtained his Certified Management Accounting designation. He then went on to complete the Certified Financial Planner program (retired) and is an acting member of the Canadian Association of Farm Advisors.
Check out Glenn’s Episode: Farm Financial Literacy on the Farm Family Harmony Podcast with Elaine Froese.
Finding Fairness in Farm Transition.
Finding harmony in understanding.
Passing down the farm with the reality of high land values is complicated but not impossible.
Do you want your farm business to remain intact for the next generation? Most do. Do you want the family to get along and come home for gatherings? Most do. What most farms don’t do is break down assumptions, have robust respectful family meetings, and discover the expectations of ALL family members for the succession or transition of the farm.
Elaine Froese is an expert in quickly mapping out the family dynamic and identifying the key challenges that need to be unpacked.
Discuss the UndiscussabullTM
In many farm kitchens there’s a bull in the middle of the room – what I’ve termed as the “Undiscussabull” – the thing no one is willing to talk about it. That stops now!
Most families know they need to talk about tough issues; they just don’t know HOW or where to get started.
If you’re stuck and wanting to bring your family to the table to start the conversation, find out about my unique process called “Discuss the UndiscussabullTM“.