Many farm families are concerned about the health of their marriages and partnerships. My speaker friend Dan Ohler is our guest this week to encourage you to think about doing a private marriage retreat or couples retreat. With all the stresses and strains on ag families, there is hope. Consider ways to cherish each other […]
How to Write a Will Joyfully
Today I have encountered 3 acquaintances who are all dealing with different kinds of loss. A husband whose wife is suffering from a stroke. A woman whose nephew is suffering from a mental illness. Someone who has just buried her mother a few short weeks ago and is thankful that she got to celebrate her […]
Conflict Resolution Between Farming Siblings (Especially Brothers)
Siblings farming together can make for many different, interesting, and somewhat challenging dynamics, especially if one of them is a brother. Here are some of the most common issues that can arise with farming brothers and how founding farmers and siblings can handle them. 11 Common Issues Amongst Farming Siblings 1. Oldest Brother Syndrome Birth […]
Love Does Not Read Minds: Being Fair in Farm Transition
An amazing group of Alberta farmers shared their deepest fears about farm transition with me at the 2018 Agriculture Service Board Conference. They texted me their biggest issues regarding fairness in transition planning. The Biggest Issues Regarding Fairness in Transition Planning I thought you might like to see what resonates with you in this list […]
Why Founding Farmers are Hanging On and How to Help Them Let Go
At 61, my life expectancy is 86. The math says I have a quarter of a century left to create a legacy, help others transition, and mentor the next generation. I am also now a grandmother who delights in reading Penny Grace stories, rocking her to sleep, and sharing her giggles. Life is precious. Recently […]
Finding Fairness in Farm Transition
Winter is a great time to take a fresh look at how our plans are unfolding. As a speaker, it is also a season of meeting and greeting many stressed out farm families who are seeking solutions to being stuck. BDO’s Jim Synder has a daughter who thinks that families that see fairness defined as […]
Ways to Increase the Cherish Factor With the One You Love
My husband of 36 years just dropped me off at the Minot airport in his pickup. We enjoyed the two-hour ride together listening to inspirational tunes and laughing when we had to stop to help herd stray Angus back to their farm. As farm kids, we both chased lots of cows and it reminded us […]
How to Tell Non-Farming Children They Aren’t Getting a RAW Deal
Our 33-year-old daughter was lamenting the fact that there is no longer a Sears Christmas Wishbook. Decades ago she delighted in flipping pages of the colored catalog seeking out requests for her wish list, hoping that the cherished gifts would be under our Christmas tree. I remember the not so happy Christmas when some of […]
Maintaining a Happy and Healthy Marriage on The Farm
It is Fall. A beautiful season of changing colors and attitude on the farm. Most farmers are starting to prepare for winter. I like winter because it is a great time to show some love to the people in your life, especially your spouse if you are married. Over the years I have shared many […]
How to Build a Strong Relationship with Marriage Fitness
Some folks are thankful for a phenomenal crop this season, thanks to heaps of snow last winter giving residual moisture during our hot, dry summer. Unfortunately, it seems that spouses may spend more attention on crop production than they do to their marriage partnerships, and the cracks are really showing up when partners don’t build […]
