A few years ago, as part of the redecorating project of my flooded basement, I took an ancient, faded mountain picture with a gold frame to the glass guys and had a mirror put into the frame. The mountain picture had faded to blues, but the story behind the picture prompted me to “re-purpose” what other designers might label as “junk.”
The framed picture was my mother-in-law’s left-behind treasure from a catalog purchase sometime in the l960’s. My mother-in-law came to this country as a young toddler, with parents, siblings and a suitcase. She shared her life story with a thankful heart, content to share what she had with others in need: her health, her wealth, her wisdom, and her cookies!
“When you have enough, when you have the basics, it is good to be content,” is the gist of what Mom Froese believed. The “new” mirror reminds me of my beloved mother-in-law and her ability to be content.
What Does Contentment Mean to You?
I asked a few other farmers about what they would say about contentment. One fellow had tears well up as he awaits the surgeon’s report. Others just shrugged their shoulders and said “it’s been a tough year…50 years of work is now in jeopardy.”
Circumstances may be critical, yet God is still in control. Is this a key to being content a matter of what life crisis you are facing?
Being content calls us to reflect and cherish the gifts we choose to open. We each have the chance to accept and open up a vital, dynamic relationship with God for our lives, for the present, and for our eternal well-being.
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Contentment in the Bible
In God’s word, the Bible, Paul writes to the Philippians about contentment:
”…I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what is it to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well-fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.” Philippians [4:11]-13. NIV.
Wow…what a gift!
Other parts of the Bible also speak about contentment.
“We can be content with what we have and not worry,” (Matthew [6:25]-35).
“We can be content because God will never leave us no matter how tough the situation is,” (Hebrews 13:5-6).
“Those of us who reverence the Lord will never lack any good thing,” (Psalm 34:9).
How to Make Your Own Contentment
There might not be a new sofa in the design plan this year, or a trip, or new patio stuff. The gifts may be letters of love, thankfulness, and affirmation. It might be a cup of tea shared, in a spirit of friendship and caring, with your neighbor. You might want to make an ordinary day extraordinary, even if you aren’t celebrating a birthday or anniversary.
Mom might re-arrange the furniture and dig to the back of the attic or closet for long-forgotten treasures that need new light and perspective. I like to spend some days “putzing” where I dedicate the search to finding forgotten white glass collections, linens, or art that can find a new place to bring beauty and energy to our home sanctuary.
Some gifts to the kids “coming home” may be a family heirloom or book that needs to be passed along to the next generation. Share the story that goes along with your treasure, and do some house cleaning in the process. When you are storing things as you clean, take a few extra moments to pack away the story that goes with the special clock, ornament, or photo.
What if we, as women, were content with a kitchen that was “good enough” and spent our time, energy, and financial resources helping other women locally and globally who are strapped for time and resources?
“Relationships, not achievements or the acquisition of things, are what matters most in life.” says Rick Warren, author of the best-selling Christian book “Purpose Driven Life.”
I agree. There are a million ways to make your own contentment, including:
- Tuck a love note and Bible verse into your loved one’s lunch bag.
- Bake cookies together or deliver treats to a lonely person.
- Go trail riding, hiking, or walking. Look up!
- Share memories around a scrapbook, photo album, or family history book.
- Tell stories. Build an outdoor bonfire and roast wieners.
- Laugh lots.
You have many tools and resources in your home to be content. Recycle those decorating magazines, and volunteer at the local thrift shop. In New Zealand, they call them “OP Shops” which is short for opportunity shops. We have lots of opportunities to re-purpose our stuff and be content with what we have. It might also be a good idea to shut off HGTV to curb your “house envy” episodes.
Open the good book and be content in going God’s way.
Hi Elaine, thanks for this post. I’m a farmer’s wife in Africa – so world’s away from you – but it’s amazing to see that the struggle with contentment is a global one. I have just posted a blog post called ‘A house called Contentment’ (here’s the link if you are interested: http://www.wishuponafarm.org/house-called-contentment/ ) and my basic idea is that we have to build up contentment in our lives in a similar way to how you would build a house.
I love it in Philippians 4:11 where Paul says “I have LEARNED to be content” – i.e. it didn’t come naturally to him either.
I’m glad I’ve found your blog, and I look forward to browsing it a bit more.
Thanks Catherine. My sister has just returned from 4 months in Kenya. Africa fills her soul. I will check out your blog.
Blessings on your journey. Elaine